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Tamika Hilder

Inspirational Speaker | Creator | Healer | Teacher | Goddess | Soulpreneur

Tamika is one of the world’s leading voices in the area of personal development and consciousness. Pushing the edge of what is possible in the evolution of humanity, her teachings support people in awakening to who they truly are, to their potential and to the power they innately have within to create their life. She is the founder of the Holistic Wellness Coaching Institute and has taught her programs to tens of thousands of people around Australia and in Bali. Her experience as an intuitive healer and spiritual teacher has spanned over a decade. Evolving humanity through healing the feminine suppression in women and men and returning the balance of masculine and feminine energy is the underlying purpose of her work.

Early Stages

I started out doing a Bachelor of Music Theatre. There I indulged in the creative and expressive part of me. From there I trained as a Pilates Instructor and Personal Trainer and worked in the fitness industry. Seeing the blocks in my clients, I wanted to study further to understand the mind-body connection. With my own health issues and depression at the time, this motivated me and I became qualified in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnotherapy, Timeline Therapy, Life Coaching, Psych-K, Hypnobirthing, Prenatal Psychology, Medical Intuition, Genome Healing, Reiki and eventually Kundalini Reiki from my current Grandmaster teacher in Bali. These studies took place over a 5 year period.

With each course, I evolved from fitness into coaching with an emphasis on emotional healing. I ran a Holistic Pilates Studio for 2 years in Brisbane with education on the Mind-Body connection for my clients. Losing the passion for the physical side of wellness, I moved to the Gold Coast and then started a business called Empowered Birth Australia, became the founding vice-president of the Prenatal Education Association of Australia and started speaking to Universities and midwives on Prenatal Psychology. Here my articles begun to get published both nationally and internationally.

Three years of that field and the Universe seemed to move me back into the fitness world but from a Holistic perspective.

I rebranded my business to the Holistic Wellness Coaching Institute, phased out my birth trauma healing work and Hypnobirthing courses and my 1 on 1 coaching business took off.

I created a method called Think Your Body Slim which healed the underlying causes of weight, food and body image issues, evolved it to become a practitioner training and then did a lot of speaking for fitness conferences on that topic. It was a very successful business.

I did that for a few years while running my wellness clinic on the Gold Coast until my soul started calling me into something different.

Career Evolution

By this time, I had learned about consciousness, metaphysics, the law of attraction, and quantum mechanics and my worked evolved into more soul healing work with an emphasis on spiritual teachings. I could see how disconnected people were from who they truly were and how disempowered they were. I had guidance to create the Life Mastery and Self Mastery Program (part of the Holistic Wellness Coaching Institute) in order to assist people in mastering their lives and self-healing. I taught these programs across Australia, branching out nationally and creating a name for myself through the process. The seminars were successful, helped over 10 ooo people and we saw miracle healings at our Self Mastery Retreat during that time and continue to do so.

After healing my own wounds related to the divine feminine and moving into wholeness, I connected to my own soul fully for the first time and this took my career in a totally different direction. I brought in a business partner to facilitate Life Mastery and Self Mastery and this business now runs without me yet continues to expand, which I am very happy about. I then had the time to create new programs to assist women in finding the same level of self-worth and empowerment that I had found and to assist couples to experience the same level of tantric connection that I had discovered. I wanted to share this new work with the world on an international scale and thus this new body of work was birthed.

Currently, I am writing my first book; an intimate detailed account of how I awakened my own Goddess and my journey of healing the divine feminine wounds within me. I hope that it will give many women the inspiration to continue on the healing pathway as at times it can feel like a never ending journey.

I will be running Goddess and couples programs on the Gold Coast and retreats in Bali while creating an online program for the Goddess work to be launched next year sometime.

Practitioner Training for The Path of The Goddess work is in the works and I wish to have facilitators of my 3 day program right across the world and 1 on 1 coaches internationally also.

My intention currently is to spread this message as far and wide as I can as I believe it will bring great healing to both men and women.

What I’ve learned after working with thousands of people is the core of who we are is love. The healing journey involves clearing all the layers of programming on top of our true selves so we can return to the love that we are. The ones who create magical lives are the ones who commit to this inner work.

My Personal Journey

I feel it’s necessary and also very helpful for you to know where I have personally come from. My professional qualifications are many, my success large, yet that tells you nothing about my soul. I used to think that in order to be professional, I needed to keep my personal feelings separate. I have realised how boxed in this can make you and strip you of your ability to express your complete self.

This work is very personal, it’s deep, and I feel it’s important for me to share very honestly with you who I am.

First of all, I am deeply spiritual. I was born into this world with a mission to raise the collective consciousness. I carried memories in my soul of a world filled with love, harmony and peace.

Growing up, I felt isolated, alone and very different. I struggled being on this planet and I found it hard to relate to humans and the way they treated Earth, animals and each other.

I felt there was depth missing in the way people communicated and connected and humanity had forgotten that all life was sacred. Being an empath, i felt so much of other’s energies yet had no idea that this was what was happening or how to deal with this gift.

I just “knew” it could be different here. And i knew I was here for a big reason. However, before I could fully step into my purpose of healing others on a global scale, my journey was to heal myself.

As a teenager, I looked for love from my relationships. I experienced bulimia, driven by my self-hate and inability to feel or express my emotions. Various addictions were a way to numb my pain and escape reality. Once i healed those issues, my career became a way for me to numb myself. I lived in my head, driven by my intellect and didn’t even realise I was completely disconnected from my body, my feelings, my heart and my true self.

Many years of coaching and mind based certifications had me become very knowledgable. However, this didn’t heal me. My negative self-image remained, my feeling of unfulfilment and at times depression, and my health issues remained. So I knew there were deeper layers to go.

Eventually, after about 9 years of various healing work and qualifications, helping others and creating a successful business, I slowly started feminine work. There came a time where I was drawn to it and intuitively knew it was the next step.

This took me down the path of tantra (teachings that helped me to realise that my sexual energy is my sacred life-force to be cherished, honoured and respected rather than something to be ashamed about or to feel dirty about and once I learned to channel this energy could use it for greater health and healing), sacred sexuality, feeling, coming into my body, womb clearing, deep listening and honoring, having personal tantric body work sessions and receiving complete healing and clearing of the sexual abuse that I carried within my womb.

I have my teacher in Bali to thank as he has had the biggest influence in my life and in my understanding of Love. Through his traditional initiations, my chakras were cleansed, purified and opened.

Deep unworthiness from the abuse, had caused me to attract relationships that were either not suitable for me, never lasted long, or were not loving or nurturing to me, despite them wanting to be. I felt a constant deep sadness in my heart about never having the love I craved. I felt angry that I gave so much love out as a healer and yet never seemed able to attract the love my heart so deeply craved.

This underlying disempowerment had been affecting my work in that my expression and authenticity were constricted.

The tantric healing pathway along with divine feminine work opened up so much within me and truly set me free. It put me onto my divine pathway and activated the highest, most divine parts of me. The trauma cleared from my body, my heart opened and I stepped fully into my gifts and into my purpose on the planet more than ever before.

There are so many misconceptions around Tantra and there are also many teachers who I would never recommend. 95% of my tantric experience was at home with myself or with a partner. It was private, beautiful, sensual, healing, opening, and taught me how to love this aspect of me. In my Goddess work, I have created my own take on sacred sexuality work with my emphasis on bringing ‘sacredness’ back into how we perceive all aspects of who we are including our body and sensuality and experiences with our partners.

Tamika

I cannot explain how transformative this journey has been for me. It’s been huge. If you knew me 5 years ago, or even 2 years ago, you would have seen me as a very strong, independent woman, driven by focused masculine energy. This was the front and mask that protected my sensitive, feminine self. This mask created my success, and at the time, i created a half a million dollar business living this way but eventually burnt myself out. At the pinnacle of my so called “success”, I was exhausted and had nothing left. Deep down I was not happy.

So layer by layer and with the assistance of the right support and relationships, I opened up to all the parts of my little girl that felt weak, terrified, vulnerable, wounded, traumatised and disempowered.

I wanted to feel strong from the inside. I wanted to feel peace. And I wanted to feel worthy.

So piece by piece, I loved these aspects of me into wholeness.

I became a woman.

Breath by breath, I learned how to surrender and have Shakti flow through my entire body. Some of my most spiritual experiences have been through my sexual tantric experiences because I felt complete universal love flowing through every part of me. My heart was opened so wide, I had no idea I could feel that much love. It has been incredible learning how to feel and receive pleasure.

This awakened my Goddess.

When I began my spiritual journey, I went looking for spirituality and source outside of my body through meditation where I would connect to higher realms. The tantric pathway, has taught me to bring the light that I am into my body and to ground and embody that light. I have learned that coming into the body is the way to ascend. And the sexual energy is a very important and natural part of who we are. It’s how we were created; it’s life force, and what expands the Universe and when we learn how to channel it in our body, it can become one of the most powerful forces for healing and enlightenment.

I came into complete alignment within myself; body, mind, heart and soul.

My Divine Feminine self felt complete.

How being in my feminine energy affected my outer world was that I was able to let go of what didn’t honour my soul, and as soon as I did, I have relationships come in that were nurturing, beautiful and unconditionally loving.

My business exploded as I had people signing up to programs without much effort on my behalf. The flow, abundance and effortless within my manifestation went to a level that I have always known what was possible.

The sexual energy is the most powerful energy on the planet. And when you have unleashed yours and know how to contain it, you literally become a magnet for all that you desire. Awakening your divine sacred feminine essence is the path for all women who wish to be their potential!

I cannot describe how good it feels to be whole again. My confidence and happiness, fulfilment and peace are genuine, and my love for myself and others has expanded exponentially.

The journey took me deep into myself and into union with myself. I had always craved ‘divine union’ with a partner, yet what my soul was actually craving was divine union with myself.

Who knows where my soul will lead me now, but I do know it is to be in service to as many people as possible who feel ready for this work. I know that my soul has prepared for many lifetimes for this exact moment in time, and there has been a completion and closure for me. Now is the time for me to begin teaching to much larger groups and to spread this work far and wide into the hearts and wombs of women all over the world.

For what I do know, is that our world is a reflection of our consciousness. And once we balance our own inner feminine and masculine energies, we will experience this in our personal relationships and on Earth.

If you feel called to do this work with me, I honour you and it would be a blessing for me to journey with you.

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